There’s no discrimination when it comes to finding love; we’re all seeking the same thing. In the simplest of life’s curve and turns we’re hoping for love to find us. We find inspiration in the weirdest place and love in vulnerability. This is not just a female issue; the need to feel loved and to connect with someone on a deeper level began before we ever understood the depth of its joy and the span of its misery. Its wild ride all in one breath can take us on a blissful journey without any consideration of distance and time. But did we all somehow forget to understand the patients in love? That it’s not rude or disrespectful but seek always to protect. To build trust, keep hope alive and preserve the essence of who we are.

We make excuses for him, for her “babe I love you”, have lost its originality. It has betrayed the tender impulses of the word, no longer spanning the depth of the sea but the shallow width of a pond. A love only for what you can get, a convenient truth. This love will never love you back,. It’s almost certain to break you down and attempt to steal the very essence of you. It’s a stunted love, no growth exist in this place. Their is no emotionally maturity just a simple case of ‘Calamity John,’ who hasn’t recover from his poor me situation. You tell yourself, he has good traits, he’s a good guy ; being tenderhearted to his situation is noble but trying to save him is a waste of time, he will never evolve from the pacifier.

Love should be less about the emotion you feel and more about an individual devotion and action. When you are committed your action reflects that devotion, which amplifies spirit of true love in its purest form. It will never leave you empty, with more questions than answer. He’ll find the time and loyalty comes easy. The more you learn the deeper you fall, all the while aspiring to new heights. We gravitate to what feels familiar and safe but what if love isn’t safe nor familiar. If obstacles exist to make us stronger then love must be a battle field of trust, a journey towards the unknown. Be encourage though there is no doubt or fear of a love that loves you back.